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You might wonder, why do girls like guys who have power and a bit of cash? What’s interesting is you’ll often see an attractive girl with her arms wrapped around a guy who is really ugly.

Ever wonder why girls are interested in these type of guys? Do you think it’s because their rich? Or perhaps there’s more than meets the eye.

Frankly, for some men it doesn’t matter if they’re rich, good-looking, or powerful. They have a quality that makes them irresistible to the opposite sex. They have something called an “alpha male” personality. Being an alpha male means you have an attitude that women absolutely love! The good news? This is an attitude YOU can develop. Today, I’m going to list four ways to develop this attitude.

#1- Become a Social Butterfly. As corny as it sounds, the alpha male is someone who is the center of attention. This is especially true in bar/club environment. Make it a point to be friendly with the popular figures in these venues – Like DJs, managers and the bartenders. Tip a lot and engage these people in conversation.

In addition, it’s important to immediately let your presence be known. When entering a venue engage people in conversations…especially other guys. I know this seems counter intuitive. But making friends with both sexes is a way to demonstrate social proof to the women you’re trying to impress.

#2 – Maximize alpha male body language. Your body language tells a lot about you. Wishy-washy behavior will repulse women. While strong, confident body language will pull them in. That’s why it’s important to give off a powerful presence.

How do you do this? Here are a few ideas: Be relaxed at all times – No matter what happens. Use a lot of the personal space around you. Speak slowly during conversations and never rush what you’re saying. Never lean towards people while talking – Let them come to you.

#3 – Be someone worth meeting. Simply put, women are tired of meeting guys who are boring. Being a little exciting is a great way to spice up the conversations you’re having with the opposite sex. When you’re an interesting guy, women will want to meet (and date) you.

There are lots of ways to be interesting to women. Know how to “cold-read” to demonstrate value and special insight into women. Relate stories about exciting things you’ve done in your life. Be funny – But not in a way that’s negative towards your looks or personality. Control conversations and talk about fun things.

#4 – Show alpha male standards. The classic man is dead. Long live the classic man. All kidding aside, there used to be a type of man who women loved being around (think James Bond.) He’s the classic man with standards. The most important part of this personality is being a guy who had a set code of standards for running his life.

How do you do this? Here are a few ideas. Tell the truth and always show integrity. Be emotionally tough – Never let anything rattle you. Tell people when you don’t like certain sub-standard behaviors. And even show a bit of chivalry.

The truth is it’s not hard to become wildly attractive to women. This is true even if you’re not a great looking guy. Try each of these four ideas to become the kind of alpha male that can get any girl in any situation.

BONUS: Before you do anything online, make sure you check out Jon’s website: 7 qualities women want and read his eye-opening 5 myths about women.